On Saturday, April 16, 2022, Carmel Theresa Butler of Irish Cove and Whitney Pier, decided to join the core of angels. She left peacefully at home, surrounded by her loving family.
Born on June 15, 1939, in Irish Cove, Carmel was the daughter of the late Anthony and Theresa (O’Connell) MacPhee.
Carmel’s life was all about family, friends, and great Cape Breton fiddle music. She dedicated her life to always helping others, whether being a lieutenant in sea cadets, a block parent or bringing her famous potato salad to whatever gathering she was attending. Carmel always had a story to tell and if you listened carefully enough, there was always a lesson within each story. She wore many hats throughout her life, the most important ones were wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and friend.
Professionally she worked in Sydney Police Services, RCMP, Hobby Hut, and Archie Nathansons. Her favourite job was buying and selling shoes for Archie Nathansons, Carmel became known as the queen of colouring shoes and could match any colour to compliment the outfit. As busy as Carmel was, her door was always opened.
Carmel leaves behind her seven children, Cathy (Fay Wambolt), Colleen, Cindy (Reg Binns), Cheryl (Mark Berkeley), Donnie (Cheryl), Brenda (Dave Chapman) and Shane (Tanya); 11 Grandchildren, Anthony, Andrew, Abigail, Casandra, Cory, Courtney, Jessica, Darren ‘DJ’, Christopher, Ethan, Jack and 7 Great Grandchildren, Layla, Logan, Brina, Izabella, Evelyn, Max and Luke.
Besides her parents, Carmel was predeceased by her husband, Chesley Butler and grandson, Dean Shane Binns.
Mom is with dad discovering new adventures on their road trips in heaven and yes, they have their fishing rods.
The family would like to thank her family doctor, Dr. Amy Wambolt, also to Dr. Mark Sampson, and our deepest gratitude to Dr. Megan Keating for her kindness, compassion, and professionalism. Special thanks and gratitude to Palliative Care and VON. A special mention to Paul Latournal (VON) for his compassion, kindness, and professionalism to our family.
There will be no funeral service, a private celebration of Carmel’s life will be held at a later date.
Donations in memory of Carmel may be made to the SPCA or Cape Breton Regional Hospital, Patient Care Fund.
Funeral arrangements are entrusted to the care and direction of Pier Community Funeral Home.
MOM this is not goodbye, because wherever you are you will always be in our hearts.
Sending deepest condolences to Carmel’s Family. So sorry to hear about your Mom’s passing. Sending lots of Love and Hugs. Corinne (Williston) Ferguson
From: Corinne (Williston) Ferguson
My sincere condolences to the family on the loss of your mother, grandmother and great-grandmother.
From: Kathleen LeBlanc
Cindy , Reggie and families. I was very saddened to read of the loss of your Mom. Please accept my condolences and take care.
From: Reina Black
So sorry to hear of Carmel’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
From: Linda and Chris kieley
My deepest condolences
From: Rita MacLeod
My condolences to the entire Butler family.
From: Lionel Ruck jr.
I am sorry to hear about your mom’s passing. My condolences to you Cathy and your family.
From: Lori Deveaux
I was very to read of Carmel’s passing. My condolences to you Cathy.
From: Shirley Halliday
I want to send my sincere condolences to you Cathy and the rest of your family. Such a great loss for all of you. May your Mom be at peace. Take care.
From: Joanne Kyte
I am so very sorry to hear about your mothers passing god bless you and your family.
From: Diana Campbell
My sympathy to Carmel and her family. I did not know her but meeting Brenda at the Regional was introduced to her sick mother. Twice I visited and spoke to her and met another daughter; and on another visit, two gentleman were by her bed. I honestly felt that your mother must have been a very special woman because the people I met were so gracious. This is the kind of people who make our world such a blessing. It was a privilege to visit and meet you .Deepest sympathy and know she is a peace with her God.
From: Sr. Catherine MacFarlane
Cathy, Fay and all your family – My sincerest condolences on your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
From: Gwendolyn MacLean
Cathy, I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your dear Mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
From: Christine Proctor-Hahn