Port Morien
It is with deepest sorrow we announce the passing of our beautiful mother, Ruby Catherine (Lutz) Paruch, on Sunday, March 27, 2022, at the Cape Breton Regional Hospital, Pallative Care, Sydney. Mom was 89.
Ruby is survived by her sons, Joe (Cindy), Alton, Illinois, David (Sheryl), Port Morien, Butch Morrison (Morag), Sydney Forks; daughter, Cathy Macleod (Troy), Leduc, AB; grandchildren, Mickey, Brian (Randee), Tyla Bourbon, Candice Morrison (Fred), Shannon Morrison (Scott), Julia Baechle (Jake), and Josie; great-grandchildren, Harper, Harlyn, Maxon, William, Annie, Nikita, Dominic, Gabriel, Logan, Isabella and Nikole.
Born October 17, 1932, in Clarion, Pennsylvania to the late James and Alice (Carson) Lutz. Mom was the last surviving member of her immediate family. She was predeceased by her husband, Teddy; daughters, Sandy, Debbie and Diane; siblings, Arthur, Harry, Marie, Clara, Lacetta, Helen and Betty and two sisters in infancy.
Ruby has been reunited in Heaven with Teddy, her husband of 62 years, and her family.
Cremation has taken place. As per our mother’s wishes, there will be no visitation. A graveside service will take place at a later date for interment of Mom and Dad at their final resting place, next to their daughters, at Resurrection Cemetery, Sydney Forks.
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If so desired, a donation to your local food bank, in memory of our mother, would be appreciated.
Mom was an incredible woman, a dedicated and loyal wife, an amazing mother and grandmother. She was the heart and soul of our family. She lived a long, full, adventurous life. In her words, “I could write a book!”
Tucked amongst her personal things, we found a note from Mom to her family, with the following poem attached. It was just like her to find a way to comfort us after she was gone. We love you, Mom.
TO THOSE I LOVE AND THOSE WHO LOVED ME
When I am gone, release me, let me go…
I have so many things to see and do,
You mustn’t tie yourself to me with tears.
Be happy that we have had these precious years.
I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave me in happiness.
I thank you for the love you each have shown,
But now its time I travelled on alone.
So grieve awhile for me, if grieve you must,
Then let your grief be comforted by trust.
It’s only for a while that we must part,
So bless the memories within your heart.
I won’t be far away, for life goes on;
So if you need me, call and I will come.
Though you can’t see or touch me, I’ll be near;
If you listen with your heart, you will hear,
All my love around you soft and clear.
And then, when you must come this way alone,
I’ll greet you with a smile and say
‘Welcome Home’
Funeral arrangements are entrusted to the care and direction of Pier Community Funeral Home.
Online Condolences
Dear Cathy and families, we send our condolences on the loss of your beautiful Mother. Such a lovely tribute. Hugs Image removed by sender. 🤗Image removed by sender. ❤
From: Susanne Morrison
I’d like to send my deepest condolences. My mom considered Ruby to be one of her best friends. They worked together for many years at what was the Holiday Inn located in Sydney. I enjoyed hearing the often humorous stories of their experiences working there together.They continued to be very close friends long after retiring from the Holiday Inn. Ruby was a caring and loving person who will be greatly missed by my mother and by anyone who had the privilege of knowing her.
From: John Mckay
We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Ruby. My mom, Yvonne McKay, worked with Ruby at the Holiday Inn and became dear friends. My mom called her “one of my best friends”. My mom has so many wonderful memories and shared so many laughs, fun times and get togethers at each other’s places… always lots of great food!
We will miss her and thank her for the joy she spread and we will remember her beautiful spirit.
Thinking of all of the family.
Darlene and Yvonne McKay
From: Darlene McKay
My deepest sympathies to all of Ruby’s family, especially my dear friend Cathy. I remember one time when we were quite young making perogies in the kitchen in Portage with Cathy and her mom and thinking how beautiful she was even in an apron. Such a lovely lady. May you rest in peace.
My deepest sympathies for my Aunt Ruby’s family.
So sorry to hear of Rubys’ passing, my deepest condolences to her family. I was fortunate to see her out shopping during covid. We sat & had a great catch-up, while she was waiting for David to come pick her up. Sure will miss our get togethers for lunch at the Polish Church. She was a sweetheart! ❤️
To the Paruch Family
Sorry for the loss of your mom! She truly was the matriarch of your family keeping everyone together. She was beautiful inside and out and I will always remember her kindness. She will be missed , but I am sure she will be happy to be reunited with Ted and her daughters, Debbie, Diane and Sandy. Rest in Peace Ruby! Say hi to my mom and dad, they loved you❤️
This is a beautiful memorial from the family.. My condolences to all of you. My fondest memories of Aunt Ruby was when I was very young and my family visited the family when they lived in St. Louis MA. I saw Aunt Ruby infrequently as an adult because of the great distance between us but I always thought she was such a pretty lady. Memories of her will always remain with me. May she rest in peace.
Many prayers for the family at this sad time. I remember meeting Aunt Ruby as a child, my grandmother was her sister Marie.
May she rest in peace and forever be in our hearts.
Cathy, David and Joe, sorry to hear of the passing of your Mom. My condolences to you and your family.
So sorry to hear of Ruby’s passing.I knew Ruby because of her friendship with my sister Helen.She was a beautiful person inside and out.Rest in peace Ruby.
Cathy, Joe and David so sorry for your loss. Condolences to your family. Ruby like Teddy will always be in our Hearts.
Sending deepest condolences to the Paruch Family on the passing of Ruby. She will be forever fondly loved and remembered!
*The Simon Family (Neighbors of Ruby & Ted).
Dave, Mike and I are so sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. Our thoughts are with you and your family at such a sad time. Her obituary was lovely; she sounds like she was a beautiful person and you were all blessed to have such a great Mom.
Deepest condolences to you David and your entire family on the loss of your beautiful mother
David and Sheryl and family: I have just heard about Ruby’s death and am saddened that this beautiful ray of sunshine is no longer among us. She was such a source of laughter with all her stories whenever she was at the church “across the street” on Charlotte. I have moved on to serve another church in another town, but I know that many missed her after she made the move she always looked forward to: out to Port Morien to live with family. God bless you all, and may memories bring you comfort.
Sending my heartfelt condolences to Rubys surviving Family I remember Ruby as the tall charming beautiful Hostess at the Dining Room at Holiday Inn back when the Inn opened in the 70’s. She left many pleasant memories with the guests who she welcomed with a smile,, in the Dining Room,, at Holiday Inn God Bless you,, Ruby.